“When someone makes a mistake, at least two people know. The person who made it, and the one they hurt doing it. This can sometimes be anonymous as something as simple as sending a text to a wrong person or butt dialing someone during an intimate conversation. But this can also be done intentionally, to spite someone else...to make them feel what they did to you. In college, I was making my fair share of mistakes. In my defense, I was trying to handle my heart, the abundance of school work, the drama that was Noelle, Lola, and Lucy, and trying to figure out how the hell I was going to be able to do all that while transitioning. The problem wasn’t college...it was everything I allowed from high school to come to college. If I would have picked a state far away to go, maybe I would have a no