Depending on yourself is something everyone wants, sometimes if your parents didn't teach you to be independent, it might be hard to be dependent on your own.
Like Rachel Green from the tv show friends, when she left her ex at the altar, her father refused to give her money, that is why she depended on Monica to help her. Monica helped her a bit, she pushed her to be independent, and maybe Adam can push me to be independent.
After all, you have learn how to be independent on your own, because you will end up alone if you don't. If you depend too much on people, people will get tired of you, they won't have your back anymore.
Before you depend on others, make sure to depend on yourself. Depend on yourself to be more successful, to have more meaning in life, to be what you want to be, and
