Regina Dallas once showed me all these studies about how men and women react differently to visual s.exual stimuli. It turns out that men have significantly higher levels of activation in the amygdala, the emotional control center of the brain. Women, on the other hand, responded to more concrete stimuli, like scent, and touch, and auditory prompts. Based on those studies, one would think that her business model, a ladies' club with male dancers, would be less than successful. Au contrair. Because she had ingeniously paired the dancers, and the music, with carb-laden food, fine chocolates, alcohol, and female camaraderie. And while I thoroughly enjoyed watching a fit, attractive man dance and strip down to almost-nothing, it didn’t usually make me aroused. But oh, hell, toss in som