“Handing out the pill all the time is not a solution. And the examinations… This can also be dangerous! Not everything shows. What if one has AIDS?” I take a step towards him and he takes a step back. He is afraid of me although I have never hurt him. My family never uses violence when dealing with servants. Unfortunately, such violence is common in my country, but I have never even seen my father act violently. “And you’re just telling me now? You i***t! You’re supposed to be a doctor!” “It’s impossible to have a frank discussion with you,” he interrupts. I let out a tired breath and return to my armchair. I sit down and signal that he should sit down too. I sigh, and I initiate a frank discussion. “So what now?” “Nothing, but this has to stop.” “So what do you suggest?” “Condoms,