"Love is giving up control. It's surrendering the desire to control the other person. The two-love and controlling power over the other person-are mutually exclusive. If we are serious about loving someone, we have to surrender all the desires within us to manipulate the relationship." ~ Rob Bell After a very long while Kemi returns, "My husband is worried something had happened to me, I told him I was coming to the hospital when I left home, but I never called to tell him I arrived safely." She walks back to where we are and takes her seat beside Lauren. Kemi commitment to her patients is really outstanding and seeing that she who only met Rogue a few weeks ago was willing to go out of her way for him makes me feel horrible and if she wasn't married, she would be the right woman for hi