It is funny what she said, but I try to hide what I think about her. It seems my daughter has an effect on everyone. Csilla suddenly turns to me and grabs my arms. “Dance with me, Jamal!” Oh, no! I can’t say anything, just shake my head and frown. I certainly don’t dance! I just don’t. I have never danced with a woman. I only dance traditional dances with men. Like on my wedding day. What these people are doing is totally insane. They are shaking their bodies. Everything is about showing off. Music and dance mean something totally different for me. For me it is respect for my homeland, my culture and my whole life. Tribal dance is sophisticated. It can never be compared to this wiggling. She stands up and pulls me. I am stronger so I keep sitting and pull my hands out of hers. She sit